Marriage

Marriage what a treasure. Such a sacred institution between two people committing for a life time to love honor and serve one another. It's NOT always easy. Infant most days it's hard work. Full of compromise vomiting children pooping dogs and too little money. Sometimes it's hurt feelings wrong things said words spoken in anger fatigue or even revenge. Often times those words cut deep! Deeper then even the act of not putting your socks in the dirty clothes basket. Sometimes you can even be trying to defend your spouse or bring truth you think needs to come to light. Yet have you talked that over with your spouse? What if they aren't ready what if they choose to forgive and don't want drama or want defending. Part of marriage is supporting your spouse in his or her decisions. If we can't trust our mate who can we trust. I know that there are things BIG THINGS even sometimes ( never ever stay in an physically or mentally abusive relationship)but God can redeem anything AND anyone!!! So many times it's our own hearts that need to change,but we are so busy judging the spec in our spouses eye instead of asking God to remove te plank from our own. Im love dareing you all to make the first step. Fall on your knees and beg God to change your heart. To give you new love and new understanding for your spouse. To flood you with all that is good about them. To gently change what needs to be changed in you! For change starts in you this day!