So ok I've always been one of "those" people. Ya know that every little thing is in it's place always neat and tidy and looking adorable. To the point where when my mom would put something away for me or dust *i'm a freak with horrid allergies and dust is one of my worst so yes my mammy would dust my room for me* I could tell when she'd moved something just because she didn't know the precise location it was suppose to be in lol. I had my whole days maped out and always schedualed wore make up looked cute ya know all that stuff. Orginazation was what I thrived on lived for loved lol. Seroius I HATE clutter and paper laying around and things not filed in their proper places having to look for things tripping on things all that.
THEN guess what I got married LOL ya so husbands lord love them are NOT organized unless you are one of those rare lucky women lol and probablly if your husband is organized your not lol I find it to be one of God's funny jokes. I think he get's great pleasure watching us grow each other. I mean that in a good way my faith in the Lord is what sees me through this life. Anyway so ya the hubs wherever he takes it off that's where it should be wherever he sets it down at that moment he'll forget it there wherever he falls asleep eating that bag of cookies or drinking that gallon of milk that's where it stays!! I growl and scream "M!!! I had to throw out half a gallon of milk honey! PLEASE try to remember to PUT IT AWAY!!!" LOL I can say this because he knows it and he knows I adore him. THEN guess what happened I had CHILDREN lol so my world became even more crazy. For so long now I have thought *because lot's of people loved to say stuff like "ok miss stuffy, ok miss prissy, ok whatever your to organized"* that I just needed to truly get over it and not worry about structure or order and just try and keep things and clean and tame as possible even if he made me crazy and want to rip all my hair out lol. .....
Well, I have come to decide that is NOT the case. At least not for my family. I think we NEED at least some order and some structure. I think it will seriously help us all. Things lately have just spun out of control and everyone keeps pushing bed times, wanting to eat at oh 10 at night waking up at 4 am or worse to me in some ways 10 and 10:30 am because there is no order no structure no true set times for things anymore. I feel like I'm constantly trying to remember when is the last time I cleaned that or scrubbed that or vaccummed there rooms or got to bathe! So a solution you ask whatever could it be...
LET'S GET ORGANIZED!!!!! Tomorrow morning after C's appointment I am going to Walmart *seriously gotta love that place* to get poster board, that clear paper stuff laminate I think it is, stars, and some sharpies! I am going to make up a schedual of the day for a month, list out times we get up we eat we do school *i homeschool* times we do chores, all that! I'm even listing Myk and I's chores ie he goes to work takes out trash kinda stuff and the days of the week i'm going to do differnt things...heck I'm even going to list baths! So fellow moms across the world here's to keeping your fingers crossed and hoping for a true change and break through and dare I say it ORDER!!! LOL
Monday, March 2, 2009
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